Man is the most powerful being amongst all the creations and certainly the mastermind behind all the changes that can be recognized on the earth’s surface. Male and female they existed with clearly spelled out differences in terms of their structure, conduct furthermore even the roles have been continuously established hence the two sides receive characteristics over time. It is through the characteristics that the two souls can be judged from similar angles.

Without a doubt, the differences have been clarified and in most instances proven to be true while some characteristics have proven to remain unfathomable with no trace or clear explanation on how it came to the human’s mind of existence. Though some considered it as just a belief, the impact remains a scar that will be forever be written in our hearts.

Superiority has always been a burning desire in man’s life and the desire has continued to burn more intensively even now more than ever. In the past ages, the male has always been considered as the powerhouse, as his dominance over the man that is the female side not only written in books of history but the impacts is still a reality in the millennial society.

As the head of the house and family, unmatched respect has been given to him and at the command of his voice silence evades the rowdy rooms in the society. On the other hand, the female side has lived to be ensnared into the laws or rather the norms of the society which has lived to be of value over time.

According to the recent data, the 21st century has come to prove the power of change as a result of the unity between many nations on the rise to support the female right gender from the so-called abuse. In Kenya, the 2/3rd gender rule division has been the cry from across as the implementations rise in many organizations.

Nevertheless, this has still not affected the masculine male power even as the female has been and remained vocal in recent times. The equality which was once a dream has continued to knock at the door of the very many nations as the feeling of neglect to the male side already looms around due to overemphasis put on female rights.

Being male has made me realize one thing, we always house an inbuilt pride that we’ve failed to put away, this is our nature, a part of us that we can not run from. Being entangled in the situation has continued to lead to our fall as silence has become our hope and home. I get a chance to face the powerhouse and give a question as to why the silence then the answer remains why should we, we are strong, we are men, sisi ni wanaume the common Swahili say.

Trying to understand this leaves me with an unsatisfying reason as to why we cling to the silent character, it is a male character that has been preserved and becomes our normal as we have naturally been made:
⚜️proud
⚜️Hard-the physicality
⚜️Courageous
⚜️Visionare
The common characteristics, so we tend to ignore the dependence need, believing that we can do it alone a common stand-out shout we possess.

The irony behind our words is that we feel that our path is rooted in that direction yet we are breaking down, down towards our lowest limits. We have continued to build on the pride and harbored on failure as we have rejected our situations and as a result continued to hunt down for answers. Where will we get the answers yet the answers are already at hand, we are blinded by our ego.

Our secrets are driving us to our graves with depression termed as a male disease. Suicide has become a new normal in town as we lack alternatives due to a lack of acceptance. But when will we ever learn this, no…no…no…when will we ever accept what we’ve learned? Is there a crime in releasing our emotions? Ooh!Men when will we choose to leave the wilderness and hit the road towards Canaan.

Truly there is pain amidst our silence.

Maxwell Gad.

Whitney Edna Ibe is the Executive Consultant, Life Coach, and Writer/ Editor at Whitney Ibe Consult (Blog), Flyhiee.com, The Social Talk, and Penprofile.com. She is in charge of consultations, services, and implementation. Whitney is a full-time Inspirational Blogger and Writer making a living from this new and active medium. I'm also an author and speaker. She started Whitney Ibe blog in 2016 after she stumbled on a blog post by the blogger; shattered in him. She fell in love with blogging immediately. She explored issues of religion, relationship, culture, society, spirituality, politics, and music. She is doing what she loves to do, which is writing and inspiring people to become better versions of themselves. Her goal is to add value to your world than you ever dreamed possible by providing you with life-changing, inspiring, motivating articles, blog posts, poetry, and short stories. As a life coach, consultant, Edna is focused on an individual's personal development and happiness. She is skilled at providing structured questions to help coordinate an individual's thoughts and has excellent reasoning skills for helping clients set tangible goals. She is incredibly helpful and not prudent with her knowledge. She knows what she’s doing and loves helping others to achieve their goals as well. Many of the top bloggers on WordPress and on various websites have learned from her writing style and it has helped them to get their blogs to where they are now. Her website is full of great material to help you follow in her footsteps. She has helped so many bloggers and I can’t praise her enough.  You will learn so much from her.  She has one of those sites that you can easily get lost in reading all of her amazing posts. She loves dessert especially chocolate mixed with whipped cream and strawberries. She enjoys long walks on the beach.

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