In life, you need to get to the point where you must realize that you are far too valuable to explain yourself to someone that doesn’t want you, need you or appreciate you. There’s constant pressure around us to explain what we feel, how we feel and when we feel it. But what do you do when the person you’re explaining to doesn’t need you nor appreciate you and what you’ve got to say? You stop!
The rejection is going to hurt for a while, but it would be devastating if you keep up the charade. Love yourself enough to know when you’re needed and when you’re not.

I have learned never to be a slave to the need of explaining myself to anyone, especially when they don’t care about me. No one is worth doing that for. You are far too valuable to explain yourself to someone that doesn’t want you or appreciate you. There are thousands and maybe even millions of people who you don’t even know about, that are waiting to hear a message like the one you’re trying to deliver. So, why are you focusing on the one person that is choosing not to listen?

Loosing someone you love hurts, but them not knowing you love them is even more painful. Love is beautiful but at the same time it hurts. Experience has taught me that the best thing that can happen to us at any age in our life, is to make love an irreplaceable part of our lives. Love isn’t stupid as many suppose it to be. It listens and understands. It’s never a slave and its life to many that finds and chooses it.

If you find love, keep it close. Treasure it like the sunrise and never let it go no matter what! Take advantage of every opportunity to love. Don’t let it pass you by. Don’t use the hurts of the past as an excuse to miss out on your future love. Keep the Faith. Love like you’ve never loved before. The most amazing things in life tend to happen right at the moment you’re about to give up hope.

Blessings and Love ?❤️?

Whitney Edna Ibe is the Executive Consultant, Life & Mental Health Coach, and Writer/ Editor at Whitney Edna Ibe Consult (Blog),, The Social Talks,, and Mental Wellness Society International. She is in charge of consultations, services, and implementation.

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