If given a second chance, or have nothing to lose, what would you do differently? Why do you think you need a second chance?
Many people search their lifetime for a second chance to fix a mistake. Some others don’t know what to do with their second chances.

As much as we always want to achieve self-efficacy and be extraordinary in all we do, we can not erase the fact that we’ve made poor choices and decisions in the past.
The consequences of our choices were grave and others inconsequential.

We’ve all made some professional and personal mistakes that if given a second chance, we would make better decisions, but then as the proverbial adage says, ” if we forget our past, we are doomed to repeat it.”

Here are pointers that guide me on making better decisions rather than staying glued to mired past:

* Don’t allow fear to make you downsize your dream. Learn to go for what you want. What’s the worst that can happen?
* Make the right connections and always be ready when the right opportunity opens up.
* No one owes you anything, yet you owe yourself an explanation if you keep making the same mistakes.
* Have a plan for your life. Cultivate a vision for where you want to go. Feel free to review and evaluate any that isn’t working.
* Work hard and play hard. Build a life as you strive to build your career.

If you were given the chance to change your thinking pattern, your past, your mistake, would you take it?
If yes, then start making better decisions and choices from today. Not everyone gets a second chance in life.

If you were to look back on your past actions and decisions, what would you wish to change?

Blessings and Love ❤

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Whitney Edna Ibe is the Executive Consultant, Life Coach, and Writer/ Editor at Whitney Ibe Consult (Blog), Flyhiee.com, The Social Talk, and Penprofile.com. She is in charge of consultations, services, and implementation. Whitney is a full-time Inspirational Blogger and Writer making a living from this new and active medium. I'm also an author and speaker. She started Whitney Ibe blog in 2016 after she stumbled on a blog post by the blogger; shattered in him. She fell in love with blogging immediately. She explored issues of religion, relationship, culture, society, spirituality, politics, and music. She is doing what she loves to do, which is writing and inspiring people to become better versions of themselves. Her goal is to add value to your world than you ever dreamed possible by providing you with life-changing, inspiring, motivating articles, blog posts, poetry, and short stories. As a life coach, consultant, Edna is focused on an individual's personal development and happiness. She is skilled at providing structured questions to help coordinate an individual's thoughts and has excellent reasoning skills for helping clients set tangible goals. She is incredibly helpful and not prudent with her knowledge. She knows what she’s doing and loves helping others to achieve their goals as well. Many of the top bloggers on WordPress and on various websites have learned from her writing style and it has helped them to get their blogs to where they are now. Her website is full of great material to help you follow in her footsteps. She has helped so many bloggers and I can’t praise her enough.  You will learn so much from her.  She has one of those sites that you can easily get lost in reading all of her amazing posts. She loves dessert especially chocolate mixed with whipped cream and strawberries. She enjoys long walks on the beach.

9 Thoughts on “Why Do You Need A Second Chance?”

  • I always ponder about ‘second chance’ but I think if given i will pass. We take decision according to our understanding and level of maturity. I am more mature today than I was yesterday but I will be more mature tomorrow…it doesn’t mean I need to change what I did yesterday..I am who I am today because of those mistakes…’just accept your mistake as gracefully as you accept your success, no regrets’, that’s what I think.
    I also believe, ‘no body owes you anything’, like you have mentioned.. take responsibility of whatever happens with you and improve, that’s it. 😊

    • I share your insights Lavanya. Whatever our mistakes are, they’ve brought us to where we are and also helped to shape us into who we are
      I am a work in progress and I don’t think there’s anything I would like to change either.

      Thank you for commenting. 🙏❤

  • A very good advice, and at least motivating article! Thank you very much, Edna! I apologize for the very long delay, i had visiting your blog. I hope you are well, and stay save! Wish you all the best! Be blessed, and enjoy life (as possible). 🙂 Michael xx

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