The weight of unforgiveness drags a person down. But forgiveness forces you to grow beyond where you were.
It leads to bitterness and bitterness to thoughts of revenge. Forgiveness is essential in all human relationships.

You can’t build a healthy relationship with yourself or with others if you can’t learn to forgive. You can’t give a hug with your arms folded.
When faced with the decision of whether to forgive and forget, never make the excuse, “But you don’t know what he did to me.”

A great amount of brainpower gets used up every time we ponder on a negative situation and plot to get even.
Getting even always causes imbalance and unhappiness. Forgiveness is the power you have over someone who slanders and criticizes you.

Are you struggling with unforgiveness? Have you surrendered your dreams because of unforgiveness?
Never underestimate the power of forgiveness. What matters is what happens in us, not to us.

Vengeance is a poor traveling companion. There is nothing more pathetic than someone who has harbored a grudge for so long.
You will never get ahead in life if you’re constantly trying to get even. The farther you walk in forgiveness, the happier you become.

Drop the hate! Avoid negative thoughts.
If you don’t accept forgiveness and the gifts it brings, you set yourself up for a lifetime of regrets.

Blessings and Love

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Whitney Edna Ibe is the Executive Consultant, Life & Mental Health Coach, and Writer/ Editor at Whitney Edna Ibe Consult (Blog),, The Social Talk, and She is in charge of consultations, services, and implementation. Whitney is a full-time Inspirational Blogger and Writer making a living from this new and active medium. I'm also an author and speaker. She started Whitney Ibe's blog in 2016 after she stumbled on a blog post by the blogger; shattered in him. She fell in love with blogging immediately. She explored issues of religion, relationship, culture, society, spirituality, politics, and music. She is doing what she loves to do, writing and inspiring people to become better versions of themselves. Her goal is to add more value to your world than you ever dreamed possible by providing life-changing, inspiring, motivating articles, blog posts, poetry, and short stories. As a life coach, consultant, Edna is focused on an individual's personal development and happiness. She is skilled at providing structured questions to help coordinate an individual's thoughts and has excellent reasoning skills for assisting clients in setting tangible goals. She is accommodating and not prudent with her knowledge. She knows what she’s doing and loves helping others achieve their goals. Many of the top bloggers on WordPress and various websites have learned from her writing style, and it has helped them get their blogs to where they are now. Her website is full of great material to help you follow in her footsteps. She has helped many bloggers, and I can’t praise her enough.  You will learn so much from her.  She has one of those sites that you can easily get lost in reading her excellent posts. She loves dessert,t especially chocolate mixed with whipped cream and strawberries. She enjoys long walks on the beach.

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