Many times when we suffer the consequences of bad choices, we want to blame them on someone’s else. Instead of taking personal responsibility for our decisions and their results, we say, “The devil made me do it,” ” I am in this condition because of the way my parents raised me,” or “If my boss would pay me more, I wouldn’t be in this debt.” ” If only he could love me just a little more, I won’t be contemplating suicide,”
Sometimes people do have reasons for making bad choices, but those reasons should never become excuses. We need to use the recognition of those reasons to help understand how we need to change and make good choices, not to justify continued bad choices.
I have made some bad choices but I never allowed it to be an excuse for never changing. Bad choices rarely affect only one person. If you make negative or harmful choices in your life, they will always affect someone else. God gives us the ability to make our own choices. We must choose to agree with God.
We must choose to stop blaming circumstances and people for the problems in our lives and start taking responsibility for all our choices, and watch God come through for us.
“some people create their own storms…and then blame other people when it rains.”
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When my children stopped blaming others and took responsibility for their actions and decisions I knew they were adults. Hallelujah!
That’s awesome Anne, they will continue to grow in wisdom and strength. Am really glad you shared with us. Thank you.
Hello Whitney.Yes,yes,yes and yes.I totally agree with you .it is much easier to blame everything around as except ourself .But when we reach that level,that we can take the responsibilities for all our actions,we will be ready to make some changes in life.
Well tailored Ben. Acceptance is always important. Thank you for sharing with us.
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Thank you dear. Am grateful
Hello, always with a pleasure, Whitney.. Have a nice evening!
good choices and bad ones make up who we are.
Yes they do buddy but standing up and accepting our responsibility makes us better people. Thank you for sharing with us.
Yes, one should always take the responsibility for their actions and admit them.
Awesome post. I used to do this. So glad I don’t do this anymore.
Am glad to hear that my dear. I used to be guilty of it too but am in a better place now. Thank you for sharing with us.
Thank you. I am happy to hear that you are in a better place. You’re welcome. I’m always happy to share when I know it might help someone else.
Très bon article encore Whitney !
Prends bien soin de toi
Merci tony Je suis heureux de vous avoir ici encore. Takia
Are you familiar with Brené Brown? She talks about blame. Check this out https://youtu.be/RZWf2_2L2v8.
Thanks braddahr, I will check it out soon. Thank you for sharing.
I totally agree with you! God gives us the ability to make our own choices. So we must start taking responsibility for all our choices. Awesome post 🙂
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Very good post 🙂 I also totally agree with you. Whe i was growing up (long time ago) i was tought that, when you point fingers, to remember that 3 are pointing at you first… 🙂
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