Life can become complicated when people do not know how to make decisions and stick with them. I am guilty of this too and my life was complicated because i couldn’t make decisions and stand by them. Thankfully all that is changed now because i have learned that i can do all things through Christ who strengthens me and i am stronger in christ. I realised how strong my mind but above all I learned not to swear either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath so that I may not sun and fall under condemnation James 5:12.

I learned if I want to make a decision I just say yes or no and try not to keep changing my mind. We often labour over the choices and options before us,  when actually when you stand in front of your closet in the morning looking at all of your clothes, all we have to do is just choose something and put it on. Don’t go back and forth until you make yourself late for work, church, school and so on and so forth.
When you get ready to go out to eat, pick a restaurant and go. Don’t become so confused that you feel there is no place good enough to satisfy you (except you are not hungry)  We cannot have everything we want at the same time. We need to learn how to make a decision and stand by it.

Let me encourage you to start making decisions without second guessing ourselves or worrying about the choices we make. A double minded man is unstable in all his ways. Don’t be double-minded or wishy-washy, because doubting your decisions after you make them will steal the enjoyment from everything you do. Make the best decisions so you can and trust God with the results. This relates to everything we do.

Don’t be anxious or afraid of being wrong. If your heart is right and you make a decision not in accordance with God’s will, he will forgive you and help you move in. Be decisive. Whatever you need to do in life, just do it and keep it simple.

Whitney Edna Ibe is the Executive Consultant, Life & Mental Health Coach, and Writer/ Editor at Whitney Edna Ibe Consult (Blog),, The Social Talk, and She is in charge of consultations, services, and implementation. Whitney is a full-time Inspirational Blogger and Writer making a living from this new and active medium. I'm also an author and speaker. She started Whitney Ibe's blog in 2016 after she stumbled on a blog post by the blogger; shattered in him. She fell in love with blogging immediately. She explored issues of religion, relationship, culture, society, spirituality, politics, and music. She is doing what she loves to do, writing and inspiring people to become better versions of themselves. Her goal is to add more value to your world than you ever dreamed possible by providing life-changing, inspiring, motivating articles, blog posts, poetry, and short stories. As a life coach, consultant, Edna is focused on an individual's personal development and happiness. She is skilled at providing structured questions to help coordinate an individual's thoughts and has excellent reasoning skills for assisting clients in setting tangible goals. She is accommodating and not prudent with her knowledge. She knows what she’s doing and loves helping others achieve their goals. Many of the top bloggers on WordPress and various websites have learned from her writing style, and it has helped them get their blogs to where they are now. Her website is full of great material to help you follow in her footsteps. She has helped many bloggers, and I can’t praise her enough.  You will learn so much from her.  She has one of those sites that you can easily get lost in reading her excellent posts. She loves dessert,t especially chocolate mixed with whipped cream and strawberries. She enjoys long walks on the beach.

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