There are two types of people. Those that hate their life and do something about it and those that hate their life and don’t do anything about it. Which type are you? I often ask myself this question, especially when there are so many craziness around me. One thing is for sure you cannot expect to stay on the right path if you are walking with the wrong people.
Some people make themselves miserable and everybody else miserable when they can rather make themselves happy and everybody else happy. This is often easier said than done. But then, Sometimes the people who act the happiest are the ones going through the most right? Yes I believe so. I admire people who choose to shine even after all the storms they have been through. There are some people that when they come into your life you just know you will never be able to replace them if they left no matter what, even when we choose to admit it or not.

When the wrong people leave your life, the right things start to happen. You may not see it but it becomes clearer when you give it time and open your heart to new opportunities. Being successful means different things to different people, to me, one of the things I call success is to be around those people who enhances your life and to enhance the lives of those around you is called significance.

Be with people who always show you your strength and hopes and not waste time with people who constantly remind you of your failures and mistakes. Try not to chase people. Be you, do your own thing and work hard. The right people who belong in your life will come to you, and stay. Forget those people who forget you. Especially when you’ve given your best to be with them and they still choose to forget you. You are not an option… It baffles me how of all the toys in the world people choose feelings to play with. I still don’t get it
Successful people build each other.They motivate, inspire and push each other. Unsuccessful people just hate, blame and complain. The loneliest people are the kindest. The saddest people smile the brightest. The most hurt people are the wisest and the people who doesn’t expect from others are the happiest. Always remember, people who are truly worthy would never see any good in making others feel unworthy of themselves.

Whitney Edna Ibe is the Executive Consultant, Life & Mental Health Coach, and Writer/ Editor at Whitney Edna Ibe Consult (Blog),, The Social Talks,, and Mental Wellness Society International. She is in charge of consultations, services, and implementation.

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