Don’t be afraid of change for the better. Be afraid of staying the same! When we’re no longer able to change a situation, we’re challenged to change ourselves. It takes courage, discipline & focus. There’s so much confusion around us and we lack clarity of mind. We’re worried and anxious, always thinking about our problems. It’s time we calm ourselves down and tone open minded when it comes to making a decision that will bring about change.

The decisions you make today produce the destiny you will live out tomorrow. Many of us waited till January 1st to make a new start and many are yet to get started on a new page. I understand that letting go isn’t easy, but, I’ve learned over time that things change, people change, and it doesn’t mean you forget the past or try to cover it up; it simply means that you move on and treasure the memories. Letting go doesn’t mean giving up, it means accepting that some things weren’t meant to be. Get up and make that decision now!

Change isn’t just necessary to life; it is life itself. Life doesn’t get better by chance, it gets better with change. Our life changes so quickly that even in a second so many things happen. But it is in these life changing moments that we laugh, mourn, grow, suffer, rejoice, endure, cry and live. It is in those moments that we make and create memories that lasts a lifetime.

Get rid of every negative energy and emotions around you. Change your thoughts, change the way you see things if what you see isn’t changing. Negative emotions will bring about negative consequences. Just as we learn how helpful love & compassion can be, we also understand that anger, pride, jealousy and arrogance can be detrimental. So always choose to respond positively. It will have a huge impact on your life.

Any time you need a new beginning, simply call on the name of the Lord Jesus because He makes everything new. Give all your worries and cares to God because He cares about you. Remove everything that’s causing grieve, sorrow & stress in your lives. Seek your strength from the Almighty. Do it single-mindedly. You’ll get there! ‬

Blessings and Love ❤️?

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Whitney Edna Ibe is the Executive Consultant, Life & Mental Health Coach, and Writer/ Editor at Whitney Edna Ibe Consult (Blog),, The Social Talks,, and Mental Wellness Society International. She is in charge of consultations, services, and implementation.

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