In life’s difficult moments, you may feel as though you’re never going to get over the circumstances you find yourself in. You may look at the future as bleak and grim and think that all hope is lost. It’s okay to make mistakes, you’re made with everything you do. But, you have to remember just how strong you are and how far you’ve come. You must have it at the back of your mind, that you will get through the difficult situation you find yourself in.

Don’t be ashamed of the scars you get in life. They are proof of your inner strength. It shows you’ve lived your life fully; how you picked yourself up when you fell, how you refused to give up, handled defeat & storms. How you rose above it all. That’s what matters in the end! ‬

No matter how hard it may seem, you should keep an optimistic outlook and take to heart that you’re capable of amazing things. Dealing with difficult situation can take a large emotional toll on us and our mental, physical health. This type of emotional turmoil can feel unrelenting, especially when we feel we are stuck with what’s happening around us. While you think all hope is lost, you have to remember that hating yourself and blaming God isn’t an option. There’s always a silver lining behind every dark cloud. What’s happening in your life presently may not be good to you, but how you handle your emotions are crucial parts of the process of coming out of it victoriously.

As you begin to make plans on how to live fully this 2020, never forget how strong you and how far you’ve come. You can be anything you set my mind on to be. Your tongue can be your greatest asset or biggest liability. The choice is yours. It has only 8 muscles, but it can make or break you, creating problems with your words. Constantly ask the Almighty to help you control it & guide its usage. Make it work for you, not against you! ‬

Happy New Year 2020 ❤️

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Blessings and Love ❤️💕💞

Whitney Edna Ibe is the Executive Consultant, Life & Mental Health Coach, and Writer/ Editor at Whitney Edna Ibe Consult (Blog),, The Social Talk, and She is in charge of consultations, services, and implementation. Whitney is a full-time Inspirational Blogger and Writer making a living from this new and active medium. I'm also an author and speaker. She started Whitney Ibe's blog in 2016 after she stumbled on a blog post by the blogger; shattered in him. She fell in love with blogging immediately. She explored issues of religion, relationship, culture, society, spirituality, politics, and music. She is doing what she loves to do, writing and inspiring people to become better versions of themselves. Her goal is to add more value to your world than you ever dreamed possible by providing life-changing, inspiring, motivating articles, blog posts, poetry, and short stories. As a life coach, consultant, Edna is focused on an individual's personal development and happiness. She is skilled at providing structured questions to help coordinate an individual's thoughts and has excellent reasoning skills for assisting clients in setting tangible goals. She is accommodating and not prudent with her knowledge. She knows what she’s doing and loves helping others achieve their goals. Many of the top bloggers on WordPress and various websites have learned from her writing style, and it has helped them get their blogs to where they are now. Her website is full of great material to help you follow in her footsteps. She has helped many bloggers, and I can’t praise her enough.  You will learn so much from her.  She has one of those sites that you can easily get lost in reading her excellent posts. She loves dessert,t especially chocolate mixed with whipped cream and strawberries. She enjoys long walks on the beach.

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