In life, the best things often come in small packages, and they are worth the waiting. It’s better to wait than to force things to happen.

It’s easier to drill a nail in a wall, but when it comes to our emotions, thought processes, and life events, then we’ve got to learn to be careful with how we make decisions and act.

Patience is a virtue, appears like folklore in our world today. Human beings are often impatient. We want things to happen in our own time. But that’s not how it works.

There’s always a waiting period.

We may not like it, but we need to unchain our brains and learn to wait. Only then would we see ridiculously amazing things begin to happen.

You may force temporary things to happen. But when it comes to long-term things such as marriage, or relationships, they can’t be forced.

Learning to understand when something isn’t working or doesn’t fit anymore is a huge blessing. Yet, as humans, letting go is one of the hardest things to do.

If what you’ve been forcing yourself to have isn’t happening, then it’s time to pause and have a rethink. Maybe it isn’t meant to be, or perhaps it’s not meant for you.

When things don’t go the way we want them to, beating ourselves up isn’t the best shot we’ve got. We’ve got to remember that there’s always more to a story. The big picture is still eluding us.

Here’s what I suggest we all learn to do: if we are keen about having something in life, for instance: the perfect relationship, the ideal career, the dream car, and others, then we’ve got to learn how to wait for things to happen naturally.

We will be at our absolute best and reconnect with our core values as soon as we understand that the best things in life are worth the wait. 😊

Learn to wait. There’s time for everything – Cherry Rose Deniega

Blessings and Love ❤️


Whitney Edna Ibe is the Executive Consultant, Life & Mental Health Coach, and Writer/ Editor at Whitney Edna Ibe Consult (Blog),, The Social Talk, and She is in charge of consultations, services, and implementation. Whitney is a full-time Inspirational Blogger and Writer making a living from this new and active medium. I'm also an author and speaker. She started Whitney Ibe's blog in 2016 after she stumbled on a blog post by the blogger; shattered in him. She fell in love with blogging immediately. She explored issues of religion, relationship, culture, society, spirituality, politics, and music. She is doing what she loves to do, writing and inspiring people to become better versions of themselves. Her goal is to add more value to your world than you ever dreamed possible by providing life-changing, inspiring, motivating articles, blog posts, poetry, and short stories. As a life coach, consultant, Edna is focused on an individual's personal development and happiness. She is skilled at providing structured questions to help coordinate an individual's thoughts and has excellent reasoning skills for assisting clients in setting tangible goals. She is accommodating and not prudent with her knowledge. She knows what she’s doing and loves helping others achieve their goals. Many of the top bloggers on WordPress and various websites have learned from her writing style, and it has helped them get their blogs to where they are now. Her website is full of great material to help you follow in her footsteps. She has helped many bloggers, and I can’t praise her enough.  You will learn so much from her.  She has one of those sites that you can easily get lost in reading her excellent posts. She loves dessert,t especially chocolate mixed with whipped cream and strawberries. She enjoys long walks on the beach.

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