In life, the best things often come in small packages, and they are worth the waiting. It’s better to wait than to force things to happen.

It’s easier to drill a nail in a wall, but when it comes to our emotions, thought processes, and life events, then we’ve got to learn to be careful with how we make decisions and act.

Patience is a virtue, appears like folklore in our world today. Human beings are often impatient. We want things to happen in our own time. But that’s not how it works.

There’s always a waiting period.

We may not like it, but we need to unchain our brains and learn to wait. Only then would we see ridiculously amazing things begin to happen.

You may force temporary things to happen. But when it comes to long-term things such as marriage, or relationships, they can’t be forced.

Learning to understand when something isn’t working or doesn’t fit anymore is a huge blessing. Yet, as humans, letting go is one of the hardest things to do.

If what you’ve been forcing yourself to have isn’t happening, then it’s time to pause and have a rethink. Maybe it isn’t meant to be, or perhaps it’s not meant for you.

When things don’t go the way we want them to, beating ourselves up isn’t the best shot we’ve got. We’ve got to remember that there’s always more to a story. The big picture is still eluding us.

Here’s what I suggest we all learn to do: if we are keen about having something in life, for instance: the perfect relationship, the ideal career, the dream car, and others, then we’ve got to learn how to wait for things to happen naturally.

We will be at our absolute best and reconnect with our core values as soon as we understand that the best things in life are worth the wait. ?

Learn to wait. There’s time for everything – Cherry Rose Deniega

Blessings and Love ❤️


Whitney Edna Ibe is the Executive Consultant, Life & Mental Health Coach, and Writer/ Editor at Whitney Edna Ibe Consult (Blog),, The Social Talks,, and Mental Wellness Society International. She is in charge of consultations, services, and implementation.

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