Odds on, people are not often disturbed by things. Their perceptions of things are what affects them the most. People often claim to hunger for leadership, but seldom like the taste of its responsibilities when it’s served up.
They prefer to play the victim rather than be the leaders they are designed to be.

We all have the power to show leadership in all we do, irrespective of what career path we’ve chosen or find ourselves doing. But, it’s up to us to activate that power.

No one has the right to take that away from us.

Do you know that by your shining example of personal leadership, you can inspire five more people or more each day to be their absolute best? And in turn, the five people can also motivate more people?

By the end end of four weeks, you’ve positively and intentionally influenced and elevated the lives of hundreds of people.

Each of us has the correct power inside us to bring out the best in people and be the best in all we do, even when we think our roles may be insignificant. It’s up to every one of us to not only recognize it but also to flip the switch of our excellence.

We all can decide to radically transform our career and every day living the moment we realise that there’s a big difference between being alive and how to live.

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Blessings and Love ❤️


Whitney Edna Ibe is the Executive Consultant, Life & Mental Health Coach, and Writer/ Editor at Whitney Edna Ibe Consult (Blog), Flyhiee.com, The Social Talk, and Penprofile.com. She is in charge of consultations, services, and implementation. Whitney is a full-time Inspirational Blogger and Writer making a living from this new and active medium. I'm also an author and speaker. She started Whitney Ibe's blog in 2016 after she stumbled on a blog post by the blogger; shattered in him. She fell in love with blogging immediately. She explored issues of religion, relationship, culture, society, spirituality, politics, and music. She is doing what she loves to do, writing and inspiring people to become better versions of themselves. Her goal is to add more value to your world than you ever dreamed possible by providing life-changing, inspiring, motivating articles, blog posts, poetry, and short stories. As a life coach, consultant, Edna is focused on an individual's personal development and happiness. She is skilled at providing structured questions to help coordinate an individual's thoughts and has excellent reasoning skills for assisting clients in setting tangible goals. She is accommodating and not prudent with her knowledge. She knows what she’s doing and loves helping others achieve their goals. Many of the top bloggers on WordPress and various websites have learned from her writing style, and it has helped them get their blogs to where they are now. Her website is full of great material to help you follow in her footsteps. She has helped many bloggers, and I can’t praise her enough.  You will learn so much from her.  She has one of those sites that you can easily get lost in reading her excellent posts. She loves dessert,t especially chocolate mixed with whipped cream and strawberries. She enjoys long walks on the beach.

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