It doesn’t matter the size; if it’s envy, drop it. Envy is one of the most unproductive of ideas.

The problem we have today globally is not only trying to “keep up with the Kardashian’s”. It’s trying to surpass them as much as we can. We all tend to live life as if it’s a race; like we’ve got a medal to our pedal. The challenge with living life like it’s a race is that chances are we will get what we want but at the finish line, we would wind up alone.

What makes us discontented with our personal or present condition isn’t only the fact that we don’t have enough, but the absurd belief that others are so much happier than we are. It’s time to give a rest to the impulse of comparing ourselves to one another.

If you’re caught in this web, you will find it hard to be happy for yourself and the achievement you’ve garnered. Envy provides the mud that failure throws at success. Are you envious or just being competitive? Where do you draw the line?

Think about it; ” Do you know how happy they are?” If no, then it’s time to say “Thanks” and not “Why Me”.

Blessings and Love ❤️

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Whitney Edna Ibe is the Executive Consultant, Life & Mental Health Coach, and Writer/ Editor at Whitney Edna Ibe Consult (Blog),, The Social Talk, and She is in charge of consultations, services, and implementation. Whitney is a full-time Inspirational Blogger and Writer making a living from this new and active medium. I'm also an author and speaker. She started Whitney Ibe's blog in 2016 after she stumbled on a blog post by the blogger; shattered in him. She fell in love with blogging immediately. She explored issues of religion, relationship, culture, society, spirituality, politics, and music. She is doing what she loves to do, writing and inspiring people to become better versions of themselves. Her goal is to add more value to your world than you ever dreamed possible by providing life-changing, inspiring, motivating articles, blog posts, poetry, and short stories. As a life coach, consultant, Edna is focused on an individual's personal development and happiness. She is skilled at providing structured questions to help coordinate an individual's thoughts and has excellent reasoning skills for assisting clients in setting tangible goals. She is accommodating and not prudent with her knowledge. She knows what she’s doing and loves helping others achieve their goals. Many of the top bloggers on WordPress and various websites have learned from her writing style, and it has helped them get their blogs to where they are now. Her website is full of great material to help you follow in her footsteps. She has helped many bloggers, and I can’t praise her enough.  You will learn so much from her.  She has one of those sites that you can easily get lost in reading her excellent posts. She loves dessert,t especially chocolate mixed with whipped cream and strawberries. She enjoys long walks on the beach.

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